There are people that want money.
Others … sex, or extreme sports … or career … but in the end if you analyze them and try to define their lives … we see that they are always dominated by the desire of more.
And it’s not that we have desires … but we have an illusory need of increasing the dose all the time.
We can’t see the addiction … no matter what we do … and it is funny cause if someone would dare to compare us with a person that has a drug addiction and is taking more and more drugs … till the day he dies because of that … we would feel ofended of the comparison.
And we see that we get for real almost all of our desires … being happy for not more than 15 minutes … actually living the victory of 15 minutes, which becomes the expression of the volatility of our times.
The desire itself is volatile … and once we have it … we just
want more and more … and we can’t really understand how things work.
All that is satisfying us is the fact that we can chaise for more and more … and nothing stops us.
The problem is that the gap between where we are and where we want to be …. is actually a balance of contradictory emotions.
We want that something … that looks almost impossible … but still we want it so much that we accept to have all the necessary sacrifices, forgetting that on this journey …. the sacrifices will never bring joy to us … but pain, misery … and an illusory hope that life will be different somewhere in the future.
The price of getting all that we actually want and accepting the philosophy of more as a philosophy of life … just because we are beings dominated by desires … makes us live … always being on a journey to a pathless path.
We can’t accept that behind the desire there is actually a volatile happiness that can satisfy our self … just for a short period of time.
Is too much to believe that we actually spend our lives chasing the illusion behind the desire … and on this road we need to see the self tortured by all types of emotions.
The balance of emotions … defines everything really life is for us … but we can’t see a way out from this illusory trap.
We just accept the misery of being unhappy …. believing and hoping that having all those desires for real … is the cure for
getting rid of ugly vibes and the start of a journey to a beautiful life.
But the truth is … we can’t see the real values of life.
Blinded by all the influences around us … we just continue life … in the same way a blind person is walking in the real life.
So … is there any final destination?!
It’s maybe too much to say that to be happy for real and not chaise for volatility … we need to change our values … and then life will change for real.
And the real trick might be … enjoy the journey and forget thinking so much of the final destination.
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